June 21, 2012

My "desperate housewife" + Eleanor

Dearest blog readers, thank you so much for sticking with me during these weird periods when a week or two will disappear in between blogs.

The ridiculous truth is, I actually attempt to blog every day. But something always intercepts my time, patience, or energy. Sometimes it is something little and silly: yesterday I had a total "first world problem" moment when I tried to move my laptop to a more comfortable location by balancing it in one hand and trying to untangle the speaker cords with the other (because if my laptop, which is literally falling apart, is unplugged, it will shut down) and the screen, which is also broken, fell forward, which also means a total shut down. I was so frustrated that I opted for a bowl of cereal and Dick Van Dyke instead. But most times it is something big, like the fact that I am exhausted at the end of the day and have to remind myself that it's because I am raising a human being and growing another one.

Time seems to be passing simultaneously slowly and rapidly. Our days are filled with multiple park trips, afternoon naps, late dinners on the porch, and evening "family walks" around the pond. Everyday brings new ways that James makes me smile and laugh, and also new difficulties that grow me in unexpected ways. Lane has been working long days, James has been having difficulty falling asleep before 10 pm, and I have been learning patience and reliance on God for the physical energy to not fall asleep at the lunch table. It is during these days that a little sugar right around nap time can go a long way. Let me clarify: I am the one eating the sugar, not James.

This isn't an every day treat, but a once-in-a-while indulgence. I make a big bowl of plain oatmeal and stir in chocolate chips and a spoonful of peanut butter. It's like a giant oatmeal-peanut-butter-chocolate-chip cookie. Yum.

So, what is everyone else's "desperate housewife"? Potato chips in your cottage cheese? Chocolate sauce and a spoon straight into the ice cream container? 'Fess up! What are they? ... I'll probably be trying them, especially if they involve sweet and salty.

PS In case you didn't hear via Facebook (apparently over 60 people "like" this... I don't think I even have 60 friends), we are almost positive that the new baby is a girl! Since you, my wonderful blog readers, didn't get to hear it first, I will tell you what we are naming her before it hits the FB: Eleanor.

This time a year ago: Asparagus rolled in chicken with caprese potato salad


  1. YAHOOOOO!! Eleanor :) Love it... My indulgence is... anything sweet :) Mango/Peach smoothies, thin mint girl scout cookies, marionberry cobbler, yummmm. I'm NOT growing a human and eating WAY too many sweets!!!

  2. I LOVE LOVE the name! Adam's grandma's middle name was Eleanor.. maybe someday it will be a middle name for 1 of our kids.. when that day comes. And your oatmeal looks amazing, will have to try that! My weakness is air-popped popcorn, with butter! My sister and I call it "soggy popcorn" lol, so you know it's got butter. Also, anything gummy candy. Congrats Congrats!

  3. Yay! So awesome about little Eleanor! And I'm all about a spoon in the ice cream or frozen cookies (when I bake cookies I freeze most of them to keep us from eating them. Ha! I now love frozen ones better!) Oh and just a warning...it gets about 3738563 times more difficult with a baby AND a toddler. Fair warning, but I would've appreciated some warning rather than being told that it's "so much easier" than the first time around. But just like the first time around, it does get easier as time goes on! :)

  4. I love the name! So so so excited for you guys!!